7 Marriage that cannot be Repaired

7 Marriage that cannot be Repaired

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Post Compass - Every wedding is certainly never face the problem. However, some problems are larger than others.

Too busy taking care of children resulting in less communication? Call a babysitter. Too focused with a mobile than a partner? Create free mobile regulation in your room.

What if You are difficult to open up on a spouse or one of you too narcissistic? Marriage therapists say this could make your marriage ended.

The following are the seven on marriage that cannot be repaired, according to marriage therapists:

1. A sense of humiliation to one another
According to Bonnie Ray Kennan, a psychotherapist from Torrance, Calif., said that if it is not listening, mutual blame, sarcasm and sense despised each other can damage the foundations of your wedding.

In fact, researcher John Gottman calls the sense of marriage hina as the main causes of divorce.

2. Too Argumentative
Your opinion is different from the couple, certainly often the case. However, it must be understood that the relationship is not a competition in which you compete to win.

"It will be a problem when one of the spouses causes arguments and looking for an excuse not to forgive more, especially when followed by refusing further discussion" marriage counselor Lisa Schmidt said.

3. Chronic Infidelity
Being in a relationship with builders screwing it is extremely difficult and tiring.

This relationship can be fixed, only if the couples are having an honest with his deeds and want to leave this bad habit.

Psychotherapist and author of Marriage Meetings for Lasting Love, Marcia Berger, Naomi said, "many people eventually succumb to repair their relationship. They decided that too much promise violated. "

4. Sex drive that doesn't fit
For many people, the mutual sexual gratification is very important in a relationship that is durable. That's why you have to match the right sex drive You from the beginning, it was clear psychological Susan Heitler.

"If your partner does not have the desire to share sexually even though you really appreciate your sexuality, You may feel less attractive mate and start thinking that a marriage without sex is not acceptable," he added.

5. Be Cool
Each person has a different affection and this may affect the relationship.

"If you are the type who always wanted a close and intimate, while couples is a type of evasive and stiff, it's hard for You to bridge these differences," says therapist couples Marnie Feuerman.

"It reduces the price yourself when with someone who does not show the affection or praise, do sex like machine and do not want to close to you," he added.

6. Narcissism
If your spouse has a personality disorder, narcissism keeping in touch in order to keep it running is very difficult, said Carin Goldstein, a marriage and family therapist.

Goldstein added, "it is not rare for a narcissist to give couples hope that they will change. Unfortunately, it's a fake. They will still criticize you because they complicate his life.

7. can't Open
You should be comfortable in telling your problems with a partner, said Marie Land, a psychological from Washington.

"If you do not want to indicate your feelings, you may feel worried or disappointed with your relationship. You don't want to keep away from the pair, give up early, or even to feel depressed about the relationship. However, that is what would you feel if one of you and your partner doesn't show the feeling of you guys, "he said again.